Archive for July 9th, 2011

Gone to heaven

We moored for the night at another one of the thin sliver islands, just one meter wide, with other boats, one after the other. Since it is low tourist season there are very few other westerners – yet boats are everywhere, filled with Indian families and groups of young people.

After another great meal we settled in for the night, me with oma in our small cabin on boat nr. two the one with the picture of jesus above the flat screen TV. We are sharing the boat with the groom’s sister, her best friend and his two young cousins and Joe from Tanzania. I woke up to birds and the soft sound of waves that carried clumps of water hyacinth, now in the other direction.

After a mixed Indian/western breakfast with omelets and coconut pancakes we made our way for a few hours across a very long and narrow lake/waterway, passed small houses where people went about their morning chores such as washing, toothbrushing and doing the dishes – all in the same water.

When we approached the Kumarakom Lake resort mom and dad of the bride, sisters, aunties and uncles awaited us. After lots of namastes and the exchange of a few words in English we were taken to our various quarters. The whole place has been hired by the family – no other guests unrelated to the wedding party.

The westerners are put on one side of the resort and the, more abundant, Indian guests on the other. There are some incompatible lifestyle issues around dress and adult beverages that make the separation desirable.

Whole bus loads (literally) of Indian relatives arrived to the drumbeats of a local traditional music ensemble. Each person received a dab of yellow powder on the forehead which instantly dripping down because of the sweat generated by the intense humidity. Cold wet towels, a fresh drink of coconut juice straight out of the nut and a necklace of yellow marigolds completed the welcome.

The Dutch friends are literally sticking out from the crowd – all the Dutch friends of the groom are immensely tall – towering over the Indians.

I am lodged on a houseboat because when the decision was reversed about my permission for leave the resort rooms were all occupied. My friends, parents, grandma and aunt and uncle of the groom are lodged in small bungelows that include private walled in swimming pools, an outdoor shower and more luxuries that I cannot even begin to relate. the slideshow will help.

The bride and groom are rather stressed out. Not me. I have booked a stress reducing ayurvedic massage right after lunch – I think I have gone to heaven.

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Waterland

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I woke up early and walked around the center of Fort Cochin. The humidity hit me as if a very heavy wet blanket was thrown over me. It hovered very close to 100% turning damp air into rain now and then.

I walked over moss covered pavers, along moss covered walls and under trees that may well be a few hundred years old with trunks and branches that have seen a lot of history. First the Portuguese were here and then the Dutch who firmly planted Christianity on this heathen soil. Churches, crosses, jesuses and monks are common figures in the landscape.

In spite of the heavy humid air and the puddles on the makeshift fields, soccer games were going on everywhere at this early hour. A walkway along the ocean was used by people doing their early morning constitutionals, their exercises, people shifting through the mass of water hyacinths for plastic bottles and other recyclables and fishermen repairing or arranging their nets.

I passed by the Dutch cemetery which was locked up behind a rusty gate – perpetually it seems. Large moss grown tombs were visible but I would have liked to see the inscriptions – who died here in the 1600s, so far from home? Who were these brave souls who left damp and cold Holland behind to convert people in this far away place?

At breakfast I met the extended Dutch party, immediate family of the groom and old friends. All the women, including the groom’s oma had had their hands henna-ed, intricate patterns applied with great skill during the previous days in Mumbai where the family of the bride lives.

Everyone had been taken shopping for sarees and wedding outfits. I fear that I will probably look a little frumpy, coming from the backwater of Afghanistan amidst these very sophisticated Mumbaian.
My friend had arranged for all of us to spend one night on a houseboat in what is called the backwaters. I can’t explain the look of the boats, not one is the same, so the slideshow will have to do. We encountered hundreds of them as we explored the waterland between the coast and the hinterland. They reminded me of elephants – big creatures lumbering along the waterways.

We had two boats to accommodate us all, the youngsters on one and the older one on the other, except that oma and I got to be with the younger group – maybe to keep an eye on things. We knew they had, with permission from parents, bought some adult beverages.

For lunch we lashed the two boats together and tied up at one of the small man-made islands where paddy is grown – the lush green color a wonderful sight after the khaki color of Kabul (khaki means dusty in Persian). The boat ride through these island-dotted waterways reminded me of the lilac islands on the Westeinder lake near in Aalsmeer.

The cooks had been working on our lunch since we had left the dock – vegetable curries with coconut, dhal, rice, fried fish, chutney, beans and more.


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