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Holiday two

We had hired Ravi, a friend of  Regi, a third generation Indian who took Axel around KL one morning while I was still working. Ravi  is also of the third generation, but he ancestors came from Sri Lanka. Ravi took us to Melaka, a place I insisted on seeing even though it is now a tourist trap. Melaka is tied up closely with Dutch history. I had read about my forefathers (and a few unlucky foremothers) who traveled to this part of the world from 1600 onwards. Many died young, in the prime of their life or in childbirth, as did many of their children. This wasn’t an easy climate for the Dutch and they had little resistance to the diseases common here.

We looked at their enormous tombstones which had been lifted from the church floor and stood side by side against the remaining walls of the original Portuguese church.  “hier leyt…” said many, describing the person who was remembered. Later in the museum (the old ‘Stadthuys’ which means town hall in Dutch), we looked at the painted scenes that described how Melaka went from a small village inhabited by forest peoples who lived from the land, the sea and piracy, to the current modern city that lives for a good part from the tourist trade, oil and the technology industry.

Downstairs life size bronze statues represented the various conquerors in front of their flags. Upstairs the various eras (Portuguese, Belanda (=Dutch), British and, Japanese) had their own room with artifacts from that time.  Judging from what I saw in Melaka and what I known from history taught to Dutch school children in the 50s (I was 5 when Malaysia became independent), this has always been a place of great suffering. A suffering that was born out of greed and intolerance. Now it seems peaceful although we figured from Ravi’s explanations that there are dangerous undercurrents here. The surface tolerance between the ethnic and religious groups is paper thin. Below it are the same drgaons of greed and intolerance that are ready to rear their ugly heads.

Ravi took us to the water’s edge so that I could wade my kakies (=feet in Malay, a word that has crept into the Dutch language) in the (in)famous Malaccan Straits waters.  A lovely mosquee was built on stilts and open to visitors, even to foreign Christian women as long as they put on long satiny gown with pink and blue flowers and a baby blue stretchy kind of tube to put one’ head through, leaving only the front of our face visible. All nylong and polyester, the gear left me sweating profusely, but it allowed me to wander around the sacred space, anonymously.

An entire section of town near the old docks had been remodeled and expanded with fancy condos, but them something happened. Nobody lives there and the buildings are falling into disrepair. The large billboards with pictures of beautiful smiling couples clinking their champagne glasses and reclining on fancy furniture are the only remnants of the developers’ visions. The Muslim Malay  (and foreigners, read: Arabs) were not able to pull off the development without the Chinese who refused to be part of this in a subordinate position.  We learned all this from Ravi whose opinions are colored by his own prejudices that were dripping into the conversations. As a Sri Lankan he can never be a ‘bumiputra’ Malay (derived from Sanskrit meaning ‘sons of the soil’.) He will always be a second class citizen. It is a bit like townies in Manchester, except in Manchester we have the same rights – this is not the case here. At any rate, the stalled and mildewy developments reminded me of a similar failed dream on the outskirts of Karachi – that one stalled when the housing prices in Dubai hit rock bottom and people lost a lot of money.

The roundtrip KL-Melaka took nearly 6 hours which meant that we missed both the high tea and the cocktail hour when we came back to our fancy hotel. We were too tired to go out and spent an extravagant amount on dinner because we didn’t understand the arrangement with wines that came out of a machine. Beware of wines that come out of a machine!

Holiday one

We celebrated the end of our assignment in the Buku Bintang area of KL. First we went to the whiskey bar. We ordered samplers of several half ounce glasses (I tried the Japanese collection) and then walked to Alor street to sample KL street food:  durian, sweet yellow and spicy green mango, crayfish and other fish and meat on bamboo skewers, fresh coconut milk, coconut ice cream and much more.

At breakfast we said goodbye to T. who should have landed in Sri Lanka by now. We packed up, did a rather stupid walk at the hottest part of the day in a rather tepid park, took a cab to our new digs, the majestic Majestic Hotel. We splurged by buying the upgrade special for 75 dollars a night which put us in the original Majestic building, feeling like we landed in the days of the Raj. the British left their fingerprints all over the place. The upgrade came with breakfast (apparently quite a spread), an English tea at 5, cocktails at 6, free laundry, free minibar contents and our own butler. After a week of mediocrity and too many Chinese for company in the Best Western, we felt like royalty. We have now a 2 room suite with plenty of horizontal surfaces to spread our belongings; it’s a relief after our dormitary style Best Western roomlet with its tiny desk and twin beds, and hardly any space to manoeuver.

We visited the nearby Textile museum, Axel for the second time, and learned about the many inventive ways that the Malay have adorned their bodies and heads with the most amazing textiles and hats. I don’t understand how these textile techniques work, let alone how they were invented, but for Axel the silk painter, it was all very illuminating.

Tomorrow we will sample the breakfast buffet which will no doubt be an improvement on our breakfast experience of the last few days. At 9 a driver will pick us up to go tho Malaka, a place of great historical interest, some two hours south of KL.

Rolling together

On Wednesday we started the stakeholder meeting – also part of WHO’s Wheelchair Services Training Package (WSTP).  We had expected 50 people but some 35 showed up. We had vendors (wheelchairs are not manufactured locally but imported and assembled here), academics, organizations of people with disabilities and practitioners in the room. We did not have anyone from the central or state governments, nor from the disability rights commission, unfortunately. This is, according to our participants, a symptom. For me it was a missed opportunity. But then again, I remember Harrison Owen Open Space principle: who ever are there are the right people.

We brought the abstract notion of a shared vision to life using a type of airy modeling dough and letting people dream about a barrier free Malaysia.  The modeling dough was sent all the way from China to the US and then carried in checked luggage back to the Chinese neighborhood.  We told people to use all the resources in the room, and they did: the modeling dough, paper, glasses, water bottles and markers. The creations were great.

The visions depicted wheelchair access in 2025 in Malaysia, ranging from  high touch to high tech and everything in between. They then worked backwards and acted out scenarios (in song and mime) that got us from 2016 to 2025. The themes that we identified had to do with standards and guidelines (there are none now), training (there are just a handful of trained wheelchair providers in the country now), teams responsible for strategy development in the hospitals (there are no such teams nor services now), public awareness (there is little of this), stakeholder collaboration (all silo-ed now) and resource development (there has not been much of collective effort to increase funding). The last step in the process brought stakeholders together around areas of common interest, influence, roles and/or expertise. Usually at this point the interest and energy wanes – partially because people are tired but more importantly because I insist that each activity proposed has to have the name of a person willing to take responsibility and lead the effort. But with this group there was none of this. Later, when we reflected on the two days and I asked them where they had felt ‘in the flow’ they mentioned both the dreaming and the activity planning; a first in my experience.

Expanding

Although it is not, as I was told, rainy season, the moment we arrived the monsoons started – thunder, lightning and downpours I have never seen descended on us daily. Since we were in a conference room it didn’t matter to us, except for the breaks which are offered on the hotel’s 15th floor rooftop, next to the pool. The pool would overflow for a while and then everything dries up again. The Malay are very happy about this rain – the draught had reached panic levels. Here, like in Afghanistan, water brings luck. For the most part it is hazy in this otherwise lush tropical paradise. Most of the time we cannot see far from our 13th floor room.

We started on Monday with the management training of people who run either Occupational Therapy services or facilities and who are planning to add wheelchair services to their repertoire. ideally this training is for managers of staff who have just completed the practical training on how to deliver wheelchair services. This is what my colleague T does before I join her.

Through the WHO program people are learning that wheelchair service delivery is more than giving a wheelchair to a person. It includes extensive diagnostic interviews, measurements, wheelchair adaptations & fitting and user training. Few of the 20 participants were actually in management positions (they rarely are in these trainings) and so much of the management content was quite new to them, as was the wheelchair service process.

I have never worked in a middle-income country and I don’t know how they managed to get USAID funding which is usually reserved for low income countries. The difference in attitude is striking: there is no expectation that some outside funder will take care of everything – there isn’t the helplessness (we are poor we cannot help ourselves) that I see so commonly elsewhere. The enthusiasm, the gratitude for this opportunity was striking, and so was the realization that there is money, and that getting it to expand services is possible albeit it difficult.

We divided up the sessions between the three of us and adapted the fixed curriculum to the context. Usually we do this training in a country that has a language and script we do not know. This makes changes nearly impossible as we would need to get translators to make the changes on the slides and the kind of spur of the moment changes I tend to do are not possible. It was a luxury to teach in English and be able to read the slides. It also allows me to put in some leadership content which I can never do in the other settings.

A taste of Malaysia

I arrived in cork dry Malaysia in the afternoon. With hand luggage only I was off the plane, getting through immigration and finding my driver in 12 minutes. It’s  an easy country to get into, compared to others where the lines are long and the paperwork considerable.

Axel waited for me in the lobby of the hotel. He had arrived the night before. We are staying in the Best Western in Petaling Jaya, a suburb of KL. It is enormous and sells itself as a ‘midclass iconic.’  We haven’t figured out the iconic part. The ‘midclass’ part is obvious. It caters mostly to Chinese travelers who are easily recognized by their moving as flocks and very loud voices. We quickly learned to avoid the elevators when a new batch came in.

On Sunday we met with the team, my colleague S. who had flown in from DC and T. from Sri Lanka who had already spent 3 weeks here teaching occupational therapists how to fit wheelchairs for children and adults with a variety of serious physical disabilities. As usual, the before and after pictures were moving: lives are changed for the better.

I have never quite understood Malaysia – there is a part of the country on a faraway island (which I was taught in school is called Borneo – the same island that also houses Brunei). There is Singapore which is on the same peninsula but a city-state all by itself, and there are states, represented in the flag (that looks like the American flag) by stripes.

The food here is quite familiar, similar to the Indonesian cuisine I know so well. Malaysia and Indonesia are like first cousins, close cousins with regard to food and language, more distant culturally depending on which Indonesian island you compare with.  I recognize words that have been integrated in the Dutch language due to some overlapping history.

Although I had just been travelling for more than 24 hours, we decided to go into town (KL) and get at a taste of this place – something hard to get in and around our hotel in the suburbs.  Axel had done his Lonely Planet research and took me to the Old China Cafe in the Chinese quarter. We used Uber and the light rail system which was our first and very positive close encounter with Malaysian society.  We did get a taste of the undercurrents that are stirring up discontent on this peninsula. The Malakka-born traveler next to me nodded indignantly at the young girl sitting on my other side (Bangla, or Indian) who did not stand up for grey-haired Axel while a young Malay boy did. “See,” she said, “these people are no good.” It was the first of several whiffs we got of such attitudes.

I was quite surprised about the pervasive influence of Islam here. I knew Malaysia (like Indonesia) is mostly Muslim but I had expected something a bit more secular (remembering my brief visit to Indonesia in 1989). We are finding something else. Older people have told us the change is slow but persistent – conservative Islam is on the rise. Most women are wrapped up from head to toe in cloth and fashion lines advertise subtle variations on the basic theme: hijab, long dress, long-sleeved tunic.  Some men will not shake hands with women.

Learning halfway around the world

Today (Friday) our Learning Summit with ICRC ended in Dar es Salaam, but I was already gone and spent the day in Amsterdam while Axel made his way westwards across the Pacific and then China to meet me in Kuala Lumpur. He should be there by now while I still have a 12 hour night flight ahead of me.

After a 10 hour not so restful night flight from Dar es Salaam to Amsterdam I decided to treat myself to an upgrade and managed to get the last seat for 40.000 miles and 250 Euros.  I have just this one night to get ready for the next assignment which will last from Sunday afternoon till Thursday next week. During that time Axel will wander around KL, find us nice places to eat at night and prepare our trip to Vietnam.

My assignment in Dar es Salaam was short, just three days. We had some 40 people from Asia and Africa and Europe participate in a “Learning Summit” – with the learning aiming at a better understanding of how ICRC program managers and their partners, rehab center managers, can better manage and lead the services for people with mobility challenges, and mobilize the disability sector to push ahead with the implementation of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of People with Disabilities. With four colleagues from MSH it was light work for me. I left the group in good hands. This may well be the last of a whole series of event with ICRC. We have made good friends and everyone has learned something about the others’ trade. It has been a wonderful ride.

Now I am getting ready for more wheelchair related work, a management training for rehab center managers and a stakeholder meeting to bring together Malaysian stakeholders who are critical to make services available and accessible to people who need them. It has been among the more rewarding assignments in my long MSH career.

In between Africa and Asia, in between ICRC and wheelchairs I enjoyed a day with my friend Annette who lives in the heart of Amsterdam. She bought me my favorite foods, raisin rolls with old cheese and osseworst (raw beef) on dark bread. We walked up and down the colorful Albert Cuyp market, had herring, a freshly made, still warm stroopwafel, with syrup dripping down my hands. We drunk coffee in a hip place (not a coffee house) and strolled along lovely shops as if we had all the time in the world. We did. Amsterdam can be so bewitching in spring (and any other time when it is not bone chilling cold and/or raining).

Conversations

As if the week wasn’t already full enough between two trips, I registered for a two day workshop offered to MSH staff, Fierce Conversations. It was a remarkable distillation of psychology and practical tips and techniques for holding team, coaching, delegation and confrontation conversations, expertly packaged and turned into an industry. It shows what ‘productizing’ can do.  I marvel at how critical pieces of my 250 hour coaching training were condensed into a two hour session. Now that is focus!

Participating in an 8:30 to 5 workshop every day, when my alarms goes off at 4:30AM, makes for very long days. The early morning hours were for finishing tasks that were due by Friday and for taking care of other business before I head out for an entire month on Sunday. Even though I am in an 8 hour workshop, the rest of my work life doesn’t stop – this is the early morning shift, a variation on the late night shift when I am 12 hours ahead on the other side of the world.

Still the workshop was worth ervy minute, very handy, not just for me but also for my teaching others. I got some good ideas and enjoyed the hours I spent with colleagues, mostly younger, who I didn’t know that well.  They are so lucky to have this opportunity – I wished I had known about these techniques when I started out. I learned things the hard way, as most others of my generation.

On Friday I ticked off nearly everything on my deadline list and closed my computer to go on a shopping spree with Axel – we are having our annual spring ritual, an Easter egg hunt that has roots deep in my childhood past. We haven’t missed a year, since we restarted the ritual in the US, in 1985.  But this year we are making one big change: the cheap Easter candies that we usually put in the bags to be hunted for across our property are replaced with seed packets. After my sugar conversion I couldn’t get myself to buy these candies for others. Some sugar is still in the bag, but of a slightly higher grade: a couple of mini stroopwafels, ginger cookies and dark chocolate almonds; the bags need some weight to stay put.

A night in NH

We cashed in on another Christmas present, this one from Tessa, and attended a concert of Chick Corea and Bela Fleck, two virtuoso musicians, one on the piano and the other on the banjo. They have been playing together for 10 years – though I only knew them as soloists. The concert was in Concord (NH) which required that I head up north with thousands of car commuters who work in Boston and live in New Hamsphire, exactly at 5 PM. First Axel got to commute at rush hour by public transport and now I got to check out the road system at the high point of rush hour.

Well prepared I had a good story on, the final moments of the threesome that gave us Wonder Woman, a wonderful book (The Secrete History of Wonder Woman) that brings three strands together: feminism, the birth control movement and the comic book industry. Enthralled by the story, the one hour and 45 minute commute to Tessa wasn’t so bad, though I wouldn’t want to do it daily.  I gather that would make one angry, as I watched driver behavior in stop-and-go traffic. I tried to keep a distance with the car in front and for that got the finger and much angry eye darts thrown at me, and a bit of road rage.

The concert hall in Concord is hidden behind a new and beautiful façade and entry way (pattern language at work!) but is itself old and funky. Decorated in faux Egyptian style (much teal, orange and ochre) is it enormous. Tessa brought down the average age by a tad, but I gather it was probably still around 60 – good whistlers and shouters (in a nice way) who know the repertoire of the two together and separate.

We were treated to a nice mix of old, new, classic and modern music, all complex as Bela reminded us. He didn’t need to. Unfortunately the front row seats Tessa got us where on the wrong side and we only got to see Bela’s back, and the back of the concert piano obscuring Chick. We didn’t get to see any of the fanciful finger work that both displayed – we could only hear it. Still, it was a phenomenal concert and I felt very lucky to have seen them live, playing together with so much joy.

The next morning I got up at 4:30, as I would have done in Manchester (MA) and throw myself into the morning commute from Concord to Boston. This time I was ahead of the rush and it took only one hour and 15 minutes. Bless my ordinary commute from Lobster Cove, a mere 40 minutes.

Thirty-six-and-counting

Yesterday was our 36th wedding anniversary. We cashed in the Christmas present Sita and Jim had given us, a gift certificate to the restaurant Bergamot in Somerville. I don’t know how Sita picks these places, I guess Millenials are good at this as I know from my travels with Millenials, triangulating.

Sita’s pick is always exactly the right place for our wedding anniversary (no pressure) – a creative cook, a nice atmosphere and good libations.

To avoid having to drive home with two cars and one of this chauffeured by a very tired me, Axel came into town by train. He had to fight his way against the current of Boston commuters going home at 5 PM . Apparently swimming upstream is not for the faint of hearted, and especially when there is something wrong on the orange line. His description reminded me of the infamous pictures of the Tokyo metro system some decades ago with specially hired pushers to fill up every empty space.

We had cocktails to forget about this and later found out that these cocktails were offered on the house because the sommelier is the partner of the sister of a dear colleague of mine who left MSH just a few months ago to start a new life in Zimbabwe. The sister, who owns her own restaurant in Newton, recognized Axel from a dinner there, while I was in some faraway land, and came by to say hello. Two other colleagues (one current, one ex) were sitting a few tables over.

We feasted on skate wings,  pork belly, duck pate, sweet potato gnocchi, turnip cream eclairs and old ripe cheese; wonderful combinations both for the palate and the eye.

Forced vacation

I nearly managed to fly around the world in business class on this last trip. Except for the legs Bangkok-Vientiane and back and Amsterdam Boston, I was able to get those coveted b-class seats through a variety of means: an e-certificate (Delta’s reward for being a frequent flyer), a successful bid on a b-class seat, and a purchase with miles. The only one missing was a complimentary upgrade – such things have become very rare now. Traveling in b-class is an entirely different experience, making air travel not only painless but quite enjoyable.

I have another mega trip of ahead of me (some 20.000 miles), starting on Sunday. It is not quite a trip around the world, though going halfway around and back. After I make it from Dares salaam to Malaysia, Axel will join me in Kuala Lumpur where I will, with two colleagues, contribute to advance the wheelchair agenda in Malaysia and hopefully get support for the newly trained wheelchair service providers.

After that we were slated to make our way to Bangkok for another week of work but that part of the trip has been canceled. Not wanting to change Axel’s ticket nor mine, we decided to embrace this forced vacation and are making plans to spend some time in Vietnam, a country on our bucket list.


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