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Just rewards

We usually don’t enter Holland from the right, that is, from Germany. We enter at Schiphol airport and then anchor ourselves in Aalsmeer. But our Aalsmeer hosts had left for Southern France and so we had to rethink our plans. What if we just played tourists for a couple of days?

My brother Willem, who is a man of action and fast words, immediately sat down at his computer and booked us a hotel on one of Holland’s northern islands, plus a ride on the ferry. And so, after a brief shopping spree in Borne to take care of things we need in Kabul but cannot get there, we left in our German car for one of the most northern harbours in Holland, Harlingen.

For two and a half hours we drove along the eastern border of Holland through the flattest of flattest landscapes, dotted with old farmhouses that are true architectural treasures from days past. The fields were full of cows, sheep, lambs and dandelions. Dandelion seeds floated in the air looking like small pieces of cotton.

The ferry was rather empty; it is not the high season yet. Half of the people were under age 10. The kids carried fishing rods and shrimp nets giving us an idea what people do for fun on the island.

I was told, when it was too late to turn back, that half of the island is used as a shooting range by the Dutch military. I was reassured that there would be no barbed wire and men in uniforms. They better not be there; bad associations, despite all their good work in Uruzgan.

To stay with the gun theme, we did spot an glass gun and handgrenade both filled with vodka in the local liquor store. We were trying to imagine the reactions of the customs guys at Kabul airport if we were to bring it back in its authentic looking wooden gun locker.

After we arrived we checked out the place on foot; most people do this on bikes which are for rent everywhere. The place is, as Axel calls such places, terminally cute. We walked around for hours until our legs ached and then we sat at a deserted terrace, it’s still barely spring here, and thus quite cool. But the hotel owner had put blankets on each of the chairs and so we sat down on the terrace and had our adult beverages, such a luxury.

It is asparagus time in Holland, the white fat fleshy ones that grow in long mounts covered by black plastic (hence their paleness). The traditional asparagus meal includes butter sauce (after asparagus the most important ingredient), boiled potatoes, ham and a hard boiled egg cut in tiny pieces.

We have calculated that it must nearly be asparagus time in Lobster Cove and wished we could help ourselves daily like Tessa and Steve will be able to do shortly. If they cut the spears enough we may still be able to have a few in June when we get back to the US.

And now, after a few stretching exercises for our very unexercised limbs, we are going to play a game of scrabble in the ‘drink and spice locale’ downstairs, a lovely restaurant/bar that is all ours as guests of the hotel. We have lined up massages, haircuts and such for tomorrow in case the south-eastern France front makes it all the way up here. It’s still the perfect vacation.

Freedom

We are in Holland now. We just went for a walk in the dark around the neighbourhood. No blast walls, no barbed wire, no guns. Just ordinary Dutch people watching TV in their living rooms, curtains open so we can peek in. As we peek in we watch a reportage about Dutch soldiers in Uruzgan. We can’t escape Afghanistan.

We left Kabul at 10 AM in a half full plane. As soon as the doors of the plane closed all the women dropped their scarves and veils. It made me wonder, what is it about this society that forces women to cover their head, neck and hair until the doors of the plane close, after which all the hidden body parts are OK to be shared with total strangers.

I wondered how many future suicide bombers and Al Qaida operatives were in the plane with us, on their way to some assignment or another. I wouldn’t ask that question on the way back as I suppose none will be flying back. It’s an eerie thought.

We had four seats to ourselves which made for a pleasant 7 hour ride to Frankfurt. We picked up our rental car, added a navigation system to our bill and drove at breakneck speed to my brother’s house just over the border from Germany, in a little less than 4 hours. We thought Frankfurt was closer by, it’s only an inch on the map after all, but it was a few hundred kilometres.

Before dinner we had a Grolsch beer especially brewed for the new (and unlikely) soccer champions of Holland (F.C.Twente) who come from the same place that the beer comes from. Grolsch brewed a special congratulatory beer which was the first real beer we had, something Axel had looked forward to for days.

And now I am watching Dutch TV where people are chewing over the eventful 4th of May (Memorial) day where some loony man created a panic that landed several people in the hospital and brought back painful memories of last year when another loony killed several people. On this 5th of May, Liberation Day (65 years ago), everyone is talking about freedom. We have our own ideas about this right now.

Tomorrows and yesterdays

Our Dakar reunion was wonderful. Some people we had not seen since we left in 1981, others left before us and then there were some who arrived and left before us who we only knew by name. There they were in the flesh.

Only a few of us Dakarois stayed in the development business. There is Theo who married a Burkinabe and is living in Ougadougou; having returned after some 25 years in that country he was sad to see how little had changed outside the capital city. Development takes generations; he must have known that but we expect more during our lifetime, especially if we put that much effort into it.

Wilma, after a full career with UNFPA is now taking care of a husband and parents who are deteriorating rapidly; life is unfair in that way. In her retirement she cannot retire because three people depend on her, three people requiring much care and patience who have little to offer her except still being there.

There is Jacqueline, now Jacoba, who had a successful career in UNICEF and retired at age 55. We were both oriented into the ways of UNESCO in April 1979 in a small chateau outside Paris. It was all very exciting and we felt very important with our blue UN passports and all these allowances.

There was one widower whose wife had been so active in West Africa that memorial services were held for her in Mali and Senegal. He handed out a small booklet with her memories about working in West Africa from the mid 70s. She wrote those when there was no point in looking forward anymore and memories of the past became the focus of the last year(s) of her life.

There were Liesbeth and Ernst who arrived a little after us in Dakar and returned back to Holland to pursue other careers. Liesbeth has a starting number for the 11-city skating race in the north of Holland which only happens once in a blue moon when the ice is thick enough. She will start training for the grueling 250 km event when it starts to freeze real hard.

Some people were grandparents, others still single but everyone remembered our carefree days in Senegal some 3 decades ago. We were served poulet yassa by two Senegalese ladies and inquired after children, spouses and grandchildren. Reunions like this are wonderful but also make you realize how life races by if you don’t watch out what you are doing. I heard people say ‘carpe diem’ a few times.

On our way back to Amsterdam we stopped briefly to see friends in Hilversum and then spent our last night in Holland at Annette and Dick’s stately house that looks out over one of the canals. It was also the last night of their cat that is sick beyond help and will make his last trip to the vet this morning. A little sad to watch her schlep her tired body across the floor and very sad to watch Dick hold her on his lap and pet her as if there was no tomorrow. He knew there wouldn’t be.

For 58000 miles we got ourselves adjacent business class seats for the grand finale of our vacation. We both would have liked to fly on for another 11 hours (unlike the Dubai – Atlanta flight which we would have liked to last only 5). The flight went much too fast for us to enjoy the food, the wines and the films. I watched Michael Jackson’s last hurray (This is it) and was pleasantly surprised by the music and exquisite dancing. I wouldn’t mind seeing it again.

In Dubai we were delivered to our hotel by a Pakistani driver who offered his condolences when he found out that we were on our way to Kabul. “Sorry,” he said, “I don’t want to pry, but why are nice people like you choosing to live in Kabul?” Although he is Pakistani he has never been there and never wants to go there either as it’s nearly as bad as Afghanistan in his eyes. We actually think it may be worse.

Fireworks

Nothing could have prepared us for the New Year’s fireworks extravaganza that, apparently, took place all over Holland, including in the small town of Borne where we were staying. There may be an economic downturn but it did not prevent the Dutch from shooting 100 million euro into the air.

As part of the run up to the new year we were treated to raw herring on toast, old fashioned Dutch kale stew with various kinds of sausages and then the traditional New Year’s Eve staple called oliebollen (oil balls), the ancestor I have been told of the American doughnut. Willem had prepared a double dose for the four of us but we couldn’t even make a dent in the pile.

There is no Time Square ball here that tells you that the new year has started but some large event somewhere in Amsterdam was the equivalent and so the TV was turned on to tell us when it was time to kiss and wish everyone a happy new year. After that, the new Year’s celebration in Holland takes an entirely different turn than the ones I know elsewhere.

As soon as the new year has started everyone emerges onto the street and it is time to wish neighbors and friends as well as total strangers a happy new year. A drunken neighbor took advantage of the situation and covered me with wet kisses before I managed to struggle loose. Yuck.

All the while fireworks exploded around us and the whole place smelt of gun powder. Rockets were fired from the middle of the street and for once there was no room for cars. It seemed very risky to drive around. A few brave (or stupid) souls ventured out but frequently had to stop for oncoming rockets. This could have been a war zone but everyone was very joyous, especially males, from young boys to adult men – this is the time for adult sanctioned pyrotechnics. The women wisely watched the events unfold outside from their warm and safe living rooms, drinking champagne and commenting on irresponsible male behavior.

We visited Willem’s colleagues and their friends down the street, a short walk that took a long time as we twirled around watching the most amazing fireworks displays in every direction, occasionnally dodging the small firecrackers that zoom low to the ground. Part of their house burned down last year and I felt pity for people with thatched roofing. You can understand by the insurance premiums are so high.

The house of their friends is next to that of a millionaire who must have shot some 10.000 euro into the air, frantic fireworks that lasted for 30 minutes without a break. Hospitals are also on alert for eye and hand injuries; luckily Willem was not on call and we could enjoy ourselves.

Axel and I tumbled into bed one hour into the new year and slept for 12 hours on end. We woke up to a winter wonderland that is rare in Holland these days.

We started the New Year with a luxury that we soon won’t have anymore: a long walk in a large and very old estate (tracing back to the 1300s) with the most beautiful old farm houses scattered in a landscape that is called ‘coullissen’ terrain – a beautiful arrangement of foregrounds and backdrops, as if on a stage. It was even more beautiful because of the snow that was still covering branches, fences and roofs.

Now, inside, sitting by the fire, with the light fading into a pale pink before sunset we are listening to the occasional firecracker that remained and it makes me think about abundance. This is a country of abundance which is, maybe, why everything if working as well as it does.

Loud noises

If we had not known that it was the last day of the year and that we were in Holland we would have imagined that we were in Afghanistan. In this over-regulated country, fireworks cannot be lit until 10 AM on the last day of the year but then the explosions start as if there is no tomorrow.

It sounded like small arms fire and bombs going off – a little unsettling. People think that Holland is so very emancipated and the youth so responsible but we saw otherwise. Youngsters from one of the most God-fearing villages in Holland were lighting fireworks left and right while smoking cigarettes (dope may be?) and drinking alco-pops straight from the bottle, althewhile scaring the bejesus out of us with their gun powder.

We arrived, me rested, Axel not, from Northwest Airlines’ last flight from Boston to Amsterdam under the NWA label; the end of an era.

It took us forever to get into our rental car. First we needed coffee, then we went to get cheese sandwiches (broodje met kaas) from the Schiphol supermarket. Then Axel discovered we had left one of our suitcases on the luggage carrousel and so he had to get back into the inner sanctum of airplane travelers and retrieve it, just before it was put into the bin of abandoned luggage.

And then we realized I had emptied my Dutch bank account to help Sita scrape together a down payment for a house in Western Massachusetts, which required an internet transaction which required a few more activities on the computer. Everything was part of a chain of self-generating tasks that made we wonder if we’d still have a car waiting at the rental place by the time we’d make it to the Budget rental counter.

Armed with a rented Tom-Tom GPS system we finally made it out into Holland and to Barneveld to see my brother Reinout and his soulmate Joke. She kept feeding us, one thing after another, until we were driven out of the house for a long walk to shed some of the calories acquired, in weather as cold and frigid as what we left behind in New England.

We drove further east (and found Holland covered in snow and ice) to our New Year’s Eve destination, my other brother Willem and his wife Jet. They treated us to more wine and food than was good for us while outside the explosions continued. We couldn’t help think of Afghanistan at each loud sound but here it is about joy over endings and new beginnings; we’ll drink to that and the hope that all eyes and ears will be still intact when 2010 arrives. Happy new year!


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