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Amazement

Nagasaki was sunny and relatively warm compared to yesterday. We had a day of tourism in front of us. We are way outside tourist season and did not see any other foreigner until we arrived at the airport. Most of the time we are the only white folks around.

First Axel guided me through the reconstructed Dutch enclave of Dejima (Decima) where the Dutch had a trade monopoly with Japan in the late 18th and early 19th century. Thanks to the 1000 Autumns of Jacob de Zoet we knew a bit about daily life on Dejima at the turn of that century.

Now the fan-shaped enclave is no longer on the ocean and has gotten a bit lost in urban sprawl, hemmed in by parking garages and office buildings. Still, it is a breath-taking experience to walk in the footsteps of those Nederlanders who ventured so far from home.

Next stop was an architectural marvel, the prefectural museum of art, which needs a bit more of a collection to put in its enormous spaces. From the roof you have a wonderful view over the harbor and to the many volcanic eruptions turned islands as far as the eye can see.

After a sushi and tempura lunch, accompanied by a small bottle of sake, we headed inland toward the museum of Professor Siebold, a German scientist who further drove in the wedge already created by trade, into this society that had been so introverted for so long. His enormous knowledge and curiosity earned him respect and students from all over Japan. His Japanese daughter was the first female OB/GYN in Japan.

And then it was time to head for the airport and board our plane to Tokyo with hundreds of salarymen going home or going on a business trip. We got lost in a sea of black suits until we alighted from the airport monorail and found all the salarymen relaxing in subway noodle and sushi shops – they weren’t running home quite yet.

A nice lady from the Canadian embassy helped us find our way back to the surface through a maze of underground tunnels. And now we are settled in our (much less fancy) hotel – more of an international youth hostel – here in Tokyo. Or rather, I am settled as Axel went out for a late meal somewhere back in that maze.

Cold

While Axel was exploring the old Dutch remnants in Nagasaki, Miho and I took the tramway to the university and walked through alternating snow, sleet and rain to the school of public health where 12 eager students were awaiting us.

The best thing in Japan, during the cold season, is the heated toilet seat. I could manage the cold knowing that somewhere a heated toilet seat was waiting for me.

At lunch time we had the traditional Nagasaki noodle soup called Champun, that was just the right thing to warm up. After lunch we continued the ‘lecture’ and I had the students explore the meaning and utility of the concepts of mission and vision. It was all very new and mysterious.

We met up with Axel at the Atomic bomb museum – a complex of exhibits, reflective pool, meditation rooms, gruesome photos and artifacts. The whole thing made me extremely angry – the pictures of the male protagonists in this drama: Hitler, Stalin, the Manhattan project men, the Japanese, Truman, Oppenheimer, Bohr, Einstein, Russell – the latter eventually realizing that the bomb was a really bad thing and becoming peace activists. The only women portrayed where survivors with their horrendous stories of loss and suffering, and the non survivors, the charred bodies of mothers and their babies. What were people thinking?

We rode back in a packed tramway, sober and shivering from the cold, me longing for the warm toilet seat that we found across from the old Decima (Dutch) enclave in a restaurant named Garcon Ken. Ken was there waiting for customers in a tiny but empty restaurant. We stated that we came for drinks, to warm up. But Ken expertly seduced us to stay for a meal, bringing out one delectable tapa after another, plying us with ‘warm up’ drinks. And so we had a French Japanese meal (fish of course) that will be among the more memorable culinary experiences of this trip.

Up above

If Australia is down under, then we must now be up above. We arrived safely in Nagasaki after a very long and exhausting trip.

In our non-existing Japanese and the waitstaff’s non-existing English we managed to order lunch in a nice fish restaurant across from our hotel. We arrived at 11:30 AM but the rooms are not released until 2 PM. That we travelled more than halfway around the world was apparently no cause for some leniency on this rule. We could have paid our way into our rooms but the restaurant beckoned.

There too was a time constraint; we were 8 minutes ahead of the start of lunch hour but they let us in anyways and served us a nice hot cup of tea. We found all our favorite Japanese dishes (and more) on the menu.

Earlier, what now seems a life time away, We had landed in Tokyo, in a dark and rainy drizzle. It was cold, after LAX. We were glad we brought our warm coats and gloves.

Haneda airport was a new experience for both of us. It is pristine, immaculate and totally sanitary. We wondered whether that makes the Japanese more vulnerable to infections. Many walk around with masks.

Just before landing we were told by the airplane crew that avian flu is back in the news in this part of the world. We had to walk through a temperature detector and over a disinfecting mat. Would it mistake a hot flash for an avian flu risk?

At the domestic airport, equally clean and full of the most polite people, we tried a Japanese breakfast and an American coffee before boarding a half full plane to Nagasaki. As we circled up from the runway that is built like an enormous bridge, sticking out into the harbor, we had a breathtaking view of Tokyo going on forever in each direction. I think we saw Mount Fuji or else a mountain with a Fuji profile.

We flew over a winter landscape southward to Nagasaki. The palm trees and the still flowering bougainvillea hinted at Southern France. But on all the north-facing slopes the pine trees were more than dusted with snow – much like we want Christmas trees to look like – even the palm trees had a light snow cover.

A colleague of my friend, host and ex-colleague waited for us at the bus stop, hailed a taxi to take us to the hotel and pointed us to the fish restaurant after which she bid us farewell to return to the university.

Still to early for check in we took a digestive walk in the hotel’s neighborhood. We are in or near the Chinese quarter. It is decorated festively with lanterns for the Chinese New Year. According to a historical marker this is the old Chinese entertainment quarter. Now it is full of bars, sometimes multiple bars on top of each other. In the olden days (1870s), we learned, there were more than 1400 geishas and prostitutes working here. An ironworks frame over the alley way shows a scene of a gentleman in a pull-rickshaw being taken to his entertainment with shy geishas fanning themselves on the side. Just as I remember from the “Memoirs of a Geisha” movie.

Finally checked in we had hoped we could stick it out till an early bedtime. We thought that we ought to try to stay awake or else we will never get used to being 14 hours ahead of ourselves. But we both succumbed to a deep sleep from which only a phonecall could wake us up. It was Miho who had to sit for a PhD exam and is now ready to party. We are of course totally ready for our next culinary adventure.

Underway

Try to get your head around this: LAX is 17 hours behind Tokyo if you look towards the east. If you look to the west it is one day minus plus 7 hours and, more importantly for us right now, a 13 or so hour flight west. All this after being on the road since 10 AM this morning, EST.

We are already exhausted and not even halfway there. We sorted out last minute panic that had bumped me forward and Axel to the back or even off the plane. Some computer routine (no human intervention said the Delta lady apologetically). I had to give up any and all upgrades (only on the Boston-Atlanta and Detroit Boston legs) to have my hubby on the same plane, or better, sit next to him. “You owe me big time,” I told him. “I already do and have done so for a long time!” he replied.

And so we are hopping from one Delta lounge to another. The food is standard: cured olives, crackers, chocolate cookies with a few local specialities thrown in for good measure.
And now it is boarding time for the long stretch ahead.

New frontiers

“My frontier woman!” exclaimed Axel when he came down this morning and saw me stoking a good fire while a snowstorm was raging outside. I had a squirrel pie in the oven, trapped it myself! Actually I don’t like squirrels and prefer pumpkin pie; but what else can you do with such abundance?

This morning is admin morning and so Axel is in charge. Admin is his job in our household. It is not much of a frontier job; rather tedious. There is the refinancing, the upcoming taxes and insurance stuff. Life is so very complicated. The days of squirrel trapping are long gone.

I am happy to announce that I finally won from my sister on WordFeud, in Spanish no less. We are returning to an English board for our next game. Playing in a language you don’t know is rather time consuming. Half of the words I laid out were guesses. Even the Spanish-English dictionary didn’t know them but the WordFeud app accepted the word.

Although I enjoy the intercontinental scrabble games, smartphones have complicated our lives and driven up our phone budget. I called T-Mobile this morning and got a nice lady on the phone to explain to me whether I can play WordFeud when in Japan without incurring enormous charges. We try to understand how the charges work. I am sure that is part of T-Mobile’s strategy: complicate things for the customer so they give up trying to understand and blissfully ignorant rake up enormous charges doing stupid things like playing scrabble on line.

We have to be so informed and conscious of things all the time. It’s a job all by itself to untangle the webs our wallets get caught in.

East, west and a sad puddle

Sita is heading East, to her annual Davos Summit stomping ground. I asked her if she looked pregnant – yes, she said, it’s pretty obvious now. This may be her last trip for a while. I am glad she is travelling in style, business class. All pregnant women should.

Axel and I will fly in the other direction on Sunday, not in style, to Japan for a whirlwind trip that includes teaching two half day classes and two full day classes in between our arrival on Tuesday and our departure on Monday.

Axel is supposed to go touristing even though he said he would come watch me teach – how sweet but how silly. I will put him on the Jacob de Zoet trail in Nagasaki and on a paper trail in Tokyo. I am sure he will amuse himself. We are particularly looking forward to many culinary adventures.

Last night our friend Woody came over with his dog who was like a lost soul, walking frantically to and fro looking for her buddy of 13 years. But her buddy, riddled with cancer, was no longer of this world. Woody described the holistic veterinary practice where she spent her last hour – it made me all teary although I have never had to go through such an experience. There were candles, music and rescue remedy for the dog (I remember this was administered to us after the plane crash) before the final injection.

All of us were very sad. Her very distraught buddy left us with a small puddle on the hallway rug. We forgave her and put the rug in the shower.

Globetrotting

This morning there was snow on the ground – not much but enough to cause traffic complications. Knowing that my last meeting of the day would end at 5 PM I happily skipped the early morning rise and left for work after the morning rush instead of before. It is nice not to have to get up and leave in the dark (or worse: snow and dark) – but of course it meant coming home in the dark. It’s going to be dark on one side of the day or the other.

I spent my day completing my Kenya assignment, working on a corporate assignment and some small stuff in between. Adding work up to 8 hours was, once again, a challenge. My departure for Japan next week is a relief and a reprieve from this headache.

Yesterday, a holiday, Axel and I went to the Peabody and Essex Museum in Salem. It was partially a preparation for our trip to Nagasaki next week. We were there to take another look at the artifacts that related to the Dutch trade with Japan, now that we have both read the 1000 autumns of Jacob de Zoet, a sad tale about cultural miscommunications, pride and greed.

The paintings of Decima island in Nagasaki Bay look so much cleaner than life must have been (and was described in the book) in the late 1700s, as do most other paintings of the trading posts in India, China and Indonesia at that time: idealized images of what the westerners wanted these places to look like.

We admired the porcelain ware, much of it commissioned by the Dutch, and the intricate craftsmanship of the Chinese and Japanese artisans who made furniture and household goods for the European and American markets.

We also visited the Shapeshifting exhibit of Native American artistry, old and modern. Its piece de resistance, at least for us, was the thirty or so foot whale hanging from the ceiling made entirely from white plastic chairs.

And all through this, in the background, I play scrabble with my sister in Belgium; she on her iPad and me on my smartphone. She has beaten me royally several times already on an English board, a French board and now we are playing on a Spanish board – a language neither one of us speaks. We are putting down words of which we don’t know the meaning. Playing in a language you don’t know is a lot of work and I am not sure I like it. Next we’ll try Dutch, still a formidable challenge for me.

Work and words

It was exactly two years ago that Axel introduced his students at SOLA to the power of a vision and the importance of being able to write with power. He did that by comparing Martin Luther King’s speech with that of Karzai’s. The latter was a sorry speech, with no power and no vision. Two years later we can’t even be disappointed – the speech had already predicted that nothing great would come from him.

That was also a period where Axel returned to his teaching roots and realized that teaching is his calling. I had known this all along but the wishes of others sometimes obscure our calling. Luckily it is never too late to respond to the call once we hear it. Axel is researching where to register to get a certificate in teaching English as a second language.

Yesterday I biked to Quaker meeting in bitter cold weather under sunny skies. It’s hard work to bike in the cold but I wouldn’t give it up except for a snow storm. We sat in mostly silence which was even more work than biking. I keep telling myself that I have to take a meditation class, and a yoga class, and this, and that, but nothing comes of it. I have my travels as an excuse but they are not. I feel a bit in limbo.

Ted came by to introduce us to S from Afghanistan. Another remarkable young woman who is studying for her MPH and needs connections I have. She needs an internship to get more hands on experience in maternal and child health, preferably in Kabul before she completes her course work. So that will be the task for today, a holiday to celebrate MLK’s work and words.

Tubes and bands

On my way from Kenya I made a brief stop in Amsterdam. My friend A got up at some ungodly hour to pick me up underneath the large Panasonic screen outside Schiphol’s arrival hall.

Sitting in her living room with its enormous ceiling to (nearly) floor windows, looking out on the Amstel River, we caught up on at least a year of developments.

On the final leg home I finished reading Margaret Heffernan’s latest book Willful Blindness, a book that left me with some belated New Year’s resolutions. To me its message was about speaking out when not speaking out looks like the best strategy to preserve some illusion or another.

Boston was sunny and warm when I landed. But as soon as I arrived home temperatures plummeted and winds howled around the cove and the house. After an early dinner made up of leftovers that I recognized from before I left on my trip, we watched the Bridesmaids, a chick flick that I had seen on the plane to Tokyo and didn’t mind seeing again. I managed to stay awake just until the end of the movie.

A walk on the beach with Tessa and her dogs told me, once again, that I shouldn’t be walking on uneven surfaces. I know that but I don’t want to know it because walking is about the only exercise I can do right now, what with the persistent right shoulder and left ankle problems. The icepacks are used a lot in our house these days and everywhere dangle yellow and red rubber bands and tubes from the physical therapist.

Minefields

I was ousted from my hotel room because the arrangements for extending my stay till airport departure time were made too late. So I spent about 8 hours hanging around the hotel lobby. This turned out to be fun.

There are many conversations to be overheard and interactions to be observed. I like people watching. I love airport arrival halls for the same reason.

I witnessed a few occasions where western ways of doing things bumping hard into Kenyan ways of doing things. There was little variation: one party responds with polite apologies. The other has a slight temper tantrum and fails to hide impatience, exasperation. Both parties retreat for a moment and then go over the same territory again. More apologies, more exasperation. If there were to be thought clouds over people’s heads each would say: “they just don’t get it.” But we usually don’t say what we think – especially when we are in such a cross cultural minefield.

It is a scenario I have seen (and at times been a participant in) that is played out over and over again as worlds collide, either forcibly put together or in well intended encounters on what looks like a level playing field. In the past we knew that these fields were not level, now we pretend they are. Worse, we fail to notice that the landmines that have been placed there over the centuries.

This is what makes my job so interesting. Being here only for a little while makes it easier to be the detached observer, something I wasn’t always able to do in Afghanistan.


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