Man-du-Jour

I started the first day of the New Year flying over Essex county, trying the new GPS. A snowstorm is coming our way but I was ahead of it. It was a glorious day, blue sky, everything covered in snow and unlimited views of Boston to the South and the New Hampshire mountains to the north.

At temperatures below freezing, it took a gas heater and Arne’s magic touch to get our plane started, after we scraped off a layer of ice from the wings. Flying with ice on your wings is not a good idea, as it alters the air flow around the wing and therefore affects lift.

My first night of the year was rather short. We celebrated the ending of 2007 and the beginning of 2008 with our dearest friends at Mary Scofield’s house in Beverly Farms, sitting around a huge fire and eating wonderful foods. The invitation said that we could wear whatever we wanted. I was tempted at first to go in my jammies but instead we decided to dress up; Axel in his rich old man outfit and I as his #1 girlfriend, the kind that ‘drapes’ around their man-du-jour, in a black glitter dress and somewhat matching jacket. Can you tell who’s the rich guy and who’s the temporary girl in this picture?

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At 7PM I called my family in Holland where it was already 2008. I managed to get only one of my four siblings on the line. My little nephew sounded giddy from the excitement, the evening of cardgames and probably a little bit too much of champagne.

Yesterday was one of the few remaining workdays before I take off for Ghana on Friday. This is going to be one of those assignments where my ability to tolerate ambiguity and having several dangling loose ends will come in handy. There is a large cast of known and unknown people involved in it and contracts that are not yet signed. At least we were able to secure lodging for ourselves, through the helpful intervention of the US Agency of International Development staff in Accra. This is a good start. We also have our tickets and all the approvals we need on this side of the Atlantic. My young colleague Cabul Mehta will be my travelling partner. He will come along to help tie many of those dangling loose ends. I am very grateful for that.

Axel helped me clean up my office which had been serving as guestroom, internet admin room and Christmas/Sinterklaas wrapping station. I am anxious to get the bed out, and back upstairs where it belongs, and install the desk that we were given by Brenda and Don from the ASE in Cambridge. It will serve as a secondary desk, a horizontal surface to put the primary desk’s overflow on. And in times of domestic inspiration it will also serve as a place to put the sewing machine. The leftovers from Sita’s sewing project have already produced one baby quilt and there is plenty for more. Sita has claimed one (‘I bought the stuff’), even though there is no baby in sight. We all agree that it is better, at this time, to have a quilt and no baby than to have a baby and no quilt.

Sita and Jim took off for Western Massachusetts to ring in the New Year with their old friends out there. Tessa and Steve, and returning guest Roy headed out to Boston and returned long after we had gone to sleep. I am always happy when I look out of window in the morning and see all the cars that should be there parked in front of the house, without any new dents. I think they had a designated driver. We are pleased with such responsible behavior, especially on this first night when alcohol flows freely everywhere.

2 Responses to “Man-du-Jour”


  1. Wyatt Bennett's avatar 1 Wyatt Bennett January 1, 2008 at 8:15 pm

    Hi Sylvia – I’ve been checking the Caring Bridge posts periodically and have been relieved and thrilled (simultaneously) to read about the progress reported as well as well as the spirit you have fostered along the way. It seems fitting that you’re transitioning to a new forum to begin the New Year.

    Anyway, I just wanted to check in to let you know that I’ve been inspired by a number of your entries and I’m guilty of not reciprocating in some way by posting to let you know. I’m sure there are many others that fall into my category.

    All is well for my family here in N.C. Parker is one and a half and we’re planning on giving him a sibling soon. Jenn has just gone back to work part time after being out for nearly two years. I’m still working for RTI (global research think-tank) while continuing my education.

    Please give my best to Axel, Sita, and Tessa. Safe travels.

    Take care,

    Wyatt-

  2. The Famous Mr. Ed's avatar 2 The Famous Mr. Ed January 3, 2008 at 12:38 am

    Ok I give up! Which one is the real one?? While the “black glitter dress” suggests that Photo 2 is the “Real McCoy”, I would have to say the licentious, dare I say, salacious eyes of the man in the second picture could only lead a reader to think that he MUST be real Hugh Hefner!! Alas, with so many clothes on, it is just impossible to tell. The right answer is???


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