Archive for April 23rd, 2009

Guests 3,4 and 5

The flight to Kabul is half full. I study my Dari lessons. I am at page 40 of about three hundred and fifty pages. I only recognize a word or two when the flight attendant tells us we are nearing Kabul. This is going to take a long time with these shorts bouts of immersion twice a year.

The descent into Kabul is always a little tense for me as it brings up my frightening departure, now a year ago. We circle and zigzag through openings into the mountain range; snow clad mountains on one side and down slopes and valleys with a thin veneer of spring green on the other.

I am met by staff from MSH and welcomed like a sister or auntie. It feels a bit like coming home. I am lodged at guesthouse zero again and try out another room, this one with a shower that is both warm and has some power. No one is home yet as the work day is not quite over. I learn that Kabul city now has electricity 24 hours a day; it explains why it feels different here now – without the sound and soot of generators humming from 5 AM until 10 PM.

Steve is still in Guesthouse 1 and has signed on for another year. He has bought more stuff since I last saw him, slowly moving the contents of the Chicken Street shops to his temporary lodgings. His rugs now also decorate the guesthouse across the yard, where I stay. The two guesthouses remain ugly but the wall hangings and carpets are attractive cover-ups.

Later Maria Pia returns from work with Hans, a compatriot who lives in Namibia. Hans is an architect and knows a lot about creating natural ventilation that is so important in TB wards. It is usually done mechanically using air conditioning that is both expensive to install and to maintain. A series of unexpected opportunities and chance encounters have changed his career as an architect in ways he could not have imagined. He started in a regular commercial firm in Germany and then Luxemburg, well off and successful at the young age of 28 when he tired of that life and applied for a job with a firm in Namibia.

Not even a graduate from a school of architecture (he finished a midlevel vocational study) he has now become one of the world’s authorities on low cost building adaptations for facilities that take in TB patients. It is new territory for both architects and TB doctors and he is as excited as a kid in a candy store. He was asked by a Harvard medical school professor to give a lecture about his specialty to some 40 people from all over the world. He is still pinching himself about this; something he couldn’t have dreamed up in is former life. We talk for hours in a combination of Dutch and English.

In the meantime Maria Pia’s guests have arrived; Said, who is somewhere between 11 and 13 years, who first lost his mom to TB and shortly afterwards got paralyzed because he was in the wrong place when an RPG hit the roof of his dad’s house, about 6 years ago. Since then he has spent half of his life in hospitals (first in Afghanistan, then in neighboring countries for over a year). It is hard to imagine a 6 year old going through this series of traumatic events on his own. He would be a perfect subject for a study on resilience. You could not guess any of this when you see him sitting perfectly content in his small wheel chair, babbling away in the English that was taught to him wile in the hospital. he sounds just like my former colleague and friend Miho from Japan which makes me wonder whether his teacher was from Japan.

Presumably there is a father someplace, a commander, but the boy claims he doesn’t have one. He does have a friend, Wafa, who was initially hired by his dad to look for a few days after Said while at the hospital. After sleeping in the hospital’s basement for a over a year, dad never showed up again, then was hired by the hospital to make himself useful as a cleaner as there was nowhere for the boy to go. Wafa became something like a surrogate dad. Said was finally ousted from the hospital (this is not an orphanage) and thanks to his own wits secured a room in a small clinic at the edge of the hsopital grounds where he has lived with Wafa fro the last year. But they will have to move from there sometime soon.

Said and Wafa travelled down from the northeast to stay with us for a few days. Maria Pia opened a suitcase full of gifts: a Rosetta Stone level one English course, an external hard drive, Charlie and the chocolate factory and other films to lure him away from the violent movies he tends to watch. For Wafa she brought shoes and a Steripen, a new LL Bean product that sterilizes contaminated water by stirring it with a UV wand. We try the pen out on bottled water that doesn’t need it. It’s high tech in any surrounding and will be even more so when it is taken back to its destination in Afghanistan’s northeastern country side.

Said goes to school and is doing well, at the top of his class. His ability to speak English while not in an English speaking country puts my feeble attempts at studying Dari to shame. From time to time he translates for Wafa whose doe snot speak English and cannot write or read – the two complement each other nicely and have bonded strongly over the years.  He has offered to give me some Dari lessons tomorrow and started with teaching me to say goodnight when I retired. Tomorrow I plan to demonstrate the giant bubblething that I brought for the guys in the office. I think I found a better destination than my doctor colleagues from the capacity building team.

Biding time

I am biding my time at Terminal 2 of Dubai’s airport. In back of me a group of men is sitting, spellbound, around a dark skinned bearded gentleman who is giving the equivalent of a Bible lesson. One of his 10 disciples is asleep but the others are eagerly listening. There is talk about dark and light stones, and a ring that protects travelers to ‘strange’ places. They are, I presume, on their way to Mecca.

The teacher speaks without taking a break for the entire time I am waiting to board (about 2 hours). He admits not to know Arabic, but speaks nevertheless in a mixture of English and Arabic . I can follow his lecture fairly well. It is part history lesson, part religious class and part storytelling, mysterious, miraculous and always about the truth. Sometimes he is deadly serious, sometimes laughing and always the ultimate authority on whatever he says. No one contradicts or questions him.

I learn that angels always obey and that one should have a little water and a small breakfast – nothing like what they serve at the Meridien hotel – before doing whatever they are going to do. He likens it to being like a sick child. There is much about ritual, purification and absolute belief, not requiring proof, just faith. One of the young men is particularly eager and engaged and receives special recognition from the teacher (you are a strong one!). He grins and bends forward even more, showing off what he knows.

Later he changes from teaching to self disclosure and telling his life story. He loses nearly half of his disciples but it is infinitely more interesting than his lecturing. The man is a book to be written. I learn that he is from Trinidad, and only a recent Moslem, more Moslem than Moslems, a converted Catholic. He tells about a friend he hung out with, a pot smoker, at the time of Woodstock (no signs of recognition on the face of his young followers – they have no idea). The friend, uninsured, got throat cancer and died despite his family spending 200.000 dollars on treatment. Ever the religious teacher he stresses the moral of that story: security can only be gotten from God, not from health insurance, money or the police. He is free-associating – the word police triggers a memory of his being arrested in Egypt by the secret police who followed him to mosques, thinking he was a Southern Sudanese (he could have been) planning some fundamentalist mischief.

I tire from listening to him and get myself a cup of freshly squeezed pomegranate juice for what might be a day’s wages or more for a Bangladeshi construction worker. I top it off with a macchiato from a Starbuck’s wannabe, making it two days of earnings for the said worker.

Most of the women waiting to board planes are clad in black formless gowns although a few have adorned their gown with colorful enhancements, like embroidered geometric shapes in bright colors or pastel ribbons. If they are not busy with looking after small children they are reading their holy books or staring into space. Several of the women, mostly the older ones but a few young ones as well, wear a burnished copper contraption on their head that covers their cheeks and eyebrows. I can’t see a purpose for it other than making it impossible to slap them in the face. I would love to sit with one of them and ask them a thousand questions but I don’t have the guts (and probably miss the language skills as well).

Familiar

The longest part of the trip is now behind me. I had a good night sleep in Dubai. Arriving in (or departing from) Dubai is starting to get familiar: this is my 7th stop in this city since November 2008. Still, it remains a strange place. Of all the places I have visited in my life this one has the most white SUVs per square inch. It also has the most spotless white-clad men I have ever seen; I have always wondered whether their secret is simply changing clothes a lot. Women, in their black dresses, are at an advantage, for once.

The flight from Amsterdam was full of business men, some with their wives, from all over western Europe, not just Dutch. Apparently Dubai’s economy has not collapsed. It is also a tourist attraction – why is a mystery – and a party place. A group of young women with T-shirts that said something about a ‘hen party’ for someone named Fi on their chests and backs, spent a long time at the cash machine in Dubai’s arrival hall. I guess they plan to have fun and can afford it.

Despite the full flight I was lucky that the seat beside me remained empty. I was so tired that I had fantasies of spreading out on the ground or doubling over on the two seats but in the end managed to sleep, fitfully, in my seat between meal services.

I was greeted outside my hotel as if I was royalty, and then escorted to my room. Check in was done unobtrusively, as if there was no money involved in this transaction (which of course there is, lots of it). The room had a basket of fruit waiting for me as well as an espresso machine and a shower with water coming at you from every direction (this required a sharp mind to understand).

There was too much stuff to explore in this executive suite that I am upgraded to, that I stayed up longer than was good for me. It was such a shame to go straight to bed and not enjoy, even for a brief moment, these luxuries that stand in such sharp contrast to what awaits me in Kabul.

This morning’s breakfast buffet was a multicultural one: French, Korean, Indonesian, Arabic and then the usual stuff. I went for Arabic: various cheeses with olives, hummus. It was just the breakfast we had talked about during our Saudi dinner in Cambridge, last Monday, now worlds away. And now on to Kabul. 


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